My family and financial problems are draining my energy. Seek professional help, says our elder, and reframe the narrative. It’s time to show yourself some love. Dear EWC Hi….
I want to shave my head
This letter writer wants to make a statement. Why not consider some alternatives, suggests our elder. Dear EWC So, I’m 16 years old and I want to shave my…
My dark side
Selfish, insecure… How can I get over my self-hatred? It’s great that you’re paying attention to your feelings, says our elder. Consider therapy, help others, and find someone to talk…
Mistakes cripple me
I’m so scared of looking stupid – how can I get over my fear of failure? Stop trying to be perfect, says our elder. Accept your mistakes and start to…
People call me an idiot
A letter writer doubts his intelligence level – and our elder can relate. From finding outside interests to taking a creative writing class, here’s how to build your self-confidence. …
Stuck, lost and dejected
I lost everything last year and now I’m back living with my parents. How can I find my purpose? The only way is up, says our elder. See friends, make…
Straight As aren’t enough
This letter writer is a successful student but her parents make her feel like a loser. Don’t measure yourself by what other people think, says our elder. Decide your own…
Save me from the thought-spiral
I’m having academic burnout and it’s making me look down on myself. Look after yourself physically and work on correcting the self-talk, says our elder. You’ve got this! Dear…
I’m becoming who I want to be…
But the people around me are holding me back. Should I cut ties and leave? Life is a journey, says our elder. Some relationships don’t last the course – and…
Am I boring?
My teachers call me supercilious. Is this why people stay away? It’s great that you’re asking these questions, says our elder. Think before you speak and just do the best…