Featured Advice

Our volunteers at ElderWisdomCircle dispense such wise, warm-hearted advice that we couldn’t resist sharing some gems with you too. If you want to ask for advice right now check out the ask for advice page  

We post a new problem and the advice here twice per week so check back regularly (or subscribe)  to find out what’s bothering our young letter writers, and what their wise older mentors have to say about it.

I hope you’ll feel inspired to apply their wisdom to your own life—and remember, if there’s something on your mind, our elders are always here to help.

Doug Meckelson
Founder

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I’m about to get fired…

… and I know it’s because I’m lazy. Hey, lots of us are lazy, says our elder. But you can ...

/ / Career

BFs, but we used to be more

My best friend and I were once in a relationship, but now she’s moved on to someone else. Should I ...

/ / Dating/Relationship

The taxi service stops now!

My son won’t take his driving test. Should I stop driving him everywhere? It does sound like you are enabling ...

/ / Children

Can’t sleep due to work stress

I have a big project at work and it’s making me so anxious that it’s ruining my life. Deep breath, ...

/ / Self-Improvement

My roller-girl regret

I saw a cute girl at the roller rink and I didn’t say anything to her. Now I can’t get ...

/ / Dating/Relationship

I’m too dependent on my BF…

… and he says he’ll leave me if I don’t change. It’s time to stop being so clingy, and take ...

/ / Self-Improvement

Butt out, mom-in-law!

My mother in law can’t accept that I’m capable of looking after her precious boy. Our elder can empathize — ...

/ / Family

My mom found my nude pics…

… and she tried to call my long-distance boyfriend’s parents! Now he’s ghosted me. I miss him so much. Sure ...

/ / Dating/Relationship

Do I want to be alone or not?

I’ve been feeling lonely, but then found myself turning down an invite. What gives? Our elder helps a letter writer ...

/ / Self-Improvement

Where are the FB photos of me?

My daughter never posts pictures of me on her Facebook page, but her in-laws are all over it! How can ...

/ / Children