Our volunteers at ElderWisdomCircle dispense such wise, warm-hearted advice that we couldn’t resist sharing some gems with you too. If you want to ask for advice right now check out the ask for advice page.
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I hope you’ll feel inspired to apply their wisdom to your own life—and remember, if there’s something on your mind, our elders are always here to help.
Doug Meckelson
Founder
A career in Germany?
I want to move to Germany to be with my boyfriend — but what can I do as a career? ...
Was I wrong to chase happiness?
I got my dream job… but I miss my friends and family back home. Should you chase happiness? I have ...
I agreed to be a SAHM…
… but my husband is not stepping up! What can I do? It’s great that you discussed staying at home ...
My new friend did blackface!
I thought he was kidding, but he wasn’t. Should I say something? It’s definitely time for a conversation, says our ...
Should I tell my 30-year crush?
I’ve been in love with a woman in my town for over 30 years, but she’s happily married. Should I ...
He just scrolls when we talk
My husband is on deployment, but every time we have a call, he just looks at social media. How can ...
I can’t keep dating my boss…
… but if I leave him to move home, I’ll be back where I started. Your life has progressed, says ...
My husband has a secret child…
… and he wants me to help him pay child support! Leave him, says our elder. There are plenty of ...
What is wrong with me?
Everything is going right — so why can’t I get out of bed? Our elder is no medical expert, but ...
I only date weirdos…
… and then I let them hurt me. How can I end this cycle? Our elder has some strategies to ...